As far as life goal's were concerned during a recent family conversation, our youngest daughter, Erin, emphatically stated that there are only three things worth pursuing in life:
1. Books(If asked, I'd have to admit that two out of those three things would most likely have been on my list at her age.) Her expression of life goals made me wonder what would have been on the lists of people I know had they been asked this question at age 15.
2. Chocolate
3. Gelato
How many would have had serious goals?When I started wondering about how perfect strangers would have answered these questions, I knew my brain wasn't going to let this go and hence this post. I know 'ear mites' are generally considered to be music related and it's usually connected to a song you hate that you just can't get out of your mind... but since I am generally considered a bit odd, I just couldn't wait to share this thought so that it could bother someone else. You may thank me later...
How many would have had odd-ball goals?
How many wouldn't have had any goals?
How many stayed trued to their goals?
How many would have looked at me like I needed to be committed?
My only sad thought today was the realization that the number of family conversations giving comic relief has dwindled as the kids have move out. Still, living with my husband has kept me amused for more than 25 years. He is also the man who has warped all his daughters... remember his infamous The Four Laws of Daddy? So the sad didn't stay long and life is still good...
QOTD: "The invention of the teenager was a mistake. Once you identify a period of life in which people get to stay out late but don’t have to pay taxes — naturally, no one wants to live any other way." ~ Judith Martin, American author
It is quite different when the kids move away...but as one of the little old ladies at church told me just yesterday...the sadness only lasts a day, and then it's all good from there!
ReplyDeleteNot sure I agree with that but I do have the experience of wishing all my kids were back at home. Often.
ReplyDeleteThen there are the times when they are all here at home and I can't remember or understand why I missed them so much.